Category: Creative Ideas

Trying to Be Quiet Adds to the Excitement

Trying to be quiet during sex is tough!

We have gotten used to an empty house and the freedom to be as loud as we want, but recently we took an adult vacation with another couple. Spending time with my husband in the mountains, touring God’s creation could only lead to one thing – great sex. With our room right next to the other couples, we had to be extra quiet – but in a way, it just added to the excitement.

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by Ruth Buezis September 15, 2016

The Heat is On – Get Nude and Create Some Fun Together

We are in the middle of the dog days of summer. The enthusiasm for warm, sunny, sweaty days has worn off and we are just laying low, until things cool off a bit. But don’t miss a chance to take advantage of conditions that don’t require clothes for warmth. Turn off the air conditioning for a while, get nude and create some memories.

Watch a movie in the nude

Cover the couch with a blanket or sheet, find a movie that both of you enjoy, and stretch out to enjoy the show. Notice what it feels like to set your body free, sneak peaks of your spouse, and take a stroll with your fingers.

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by Ruth Buezis July 28, 2016

Keeping the Creativity Going

The other night during the Awaken-Love Men’s Edition class we were talking about battling the lie that “Sex within marriage is boring.” I was sharing that I believe women are amazingly creative in the bedroom. In Song of Songs 7:11-12, she plans an outdoor rendezvous for the two of them to enjoy. They go to the vineyards early, before anyone else is there, and have sex outside.

Naturally, the men were eager to convey that they had no problem if their wife wanted to plan an outdoor adventure – or anything else that was creative. And then the question came up,

“If my wife is naturally creative, how do I get her to tap into her creativity?”

I have to be honest, beyond the obvious answers of creating a safe place and affirming the creative things that she does, I didn’t have much of an answer. So I have been chewing on it all week, and I have an idea…

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by Ruth Buezis July 4, 2016

The Power of Stillness

Have you ever thought about the power of stillness?

To feel a pulse

Hear from God

To listen to our own bodies and desires

Sometimes I think that we have this idea that sex is all about movement – in and out, back and forth, frantic motion – trying to make something happen. So much motion that we get lost and dizzy and miss out on what is there all along.

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by Ruth Buezis June 27, 2016

Electric Connection – Breast Sex

One of the most sensitive and erotic areas of a woman’s body are her nipples.

One of the most sensitive and erotic areas of a man’s body is his penis.

And when the two come together, it can be

ELECTRIC

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by Ruth Buezis May 12, 2016

WANT TO HAVE FUN – Week 6

Tapping into our own creativity is really just another way to let our spouse know us. This week, the men get to plan the fun.

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by Ruth Buezis February 11, 2016

WANT TO HAVE FUN – Week 5

Sometimes planning for the date is as much fun as the date itself. This week ladies, you get the pleasure of planning…

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by Ruth Buezis February 4, 2016

Long Distance Connection

I used to hate when my husband traveled for work. My normal stance was to make sure the house was kept in order, the kids were taken care of and to treat my husband as if I was the ice queen. Phone conversations were limited to mundane details and I created a giant protective wall that would take days for my husband to gently disassemble when he got home.

I have since learned that times of physical separation can be an opportunity for fun and growth in expressing intimacy other ways besides skin to skin, sex in the same bed. It forces us to sharpen our other senses beside touch – things like smell, sight, and sound. It stretches us in using our words to connect – emotionally, spiritually, and even physically. We can heighten anticipation to create passionate reunions that are hot and spicy, or we can use technology to communicate and enjoy each other in a whole new way. So whether you are separated for a week or months, hang on tight as I share some ideas to

CONNECT – LONG DISTANCE

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by Ruth Buezis January 27, 2016

The Pleasures of Morning Sex

As my husband and I have gotten older, we have learned to appreciate mornings sex for several reasons. After a good night’s sleep, some of the aches and pains have receded and our bodies feel rested. My brain slows down enough to put my “to do list” on the back burner for a while. Hormones surge and bodies function best in the morning. And as I have gained confidence, I appreciate seeing each other in the light of day and savoring those images. Consider taking advantage of morning sex and see what a difference it can make.

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by Ruth Buezis September 23, 2015

COCONUT OIL – A Great Personal Lubrication

Coconut Oil – I love everything

about it !!!

I love to use it on my husband. I lube him up – his penis, his testicles, his perineum, all around the area – and it makes my hands glide silky smooth over him. Whether I am enjoying him with my hands, mouth, breasts or any other part of my body, a little bit of coconut oil makes

it a whole lot nicer.

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by Ruth Buezis July 22, 2015

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Trying to Be Quiet Adds to the Excitement

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Electric Connection – Breast Sex

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One of the most sensitive and erotic areas of a man’s body is his penis.

And when the two come together, it can be

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One of the most sensitive and erotic areas of a man’s body is his penis.

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