In honor of a New Year… Getting ready for Valentines…Getting out of the doldrums of winter…Making new memories…

Sometimes you just want to have fun.

So for the next 6 Thursdays, we will suggest very specific and creative ways to let loose, have fun and make memories with your spouse. Whether newlyweds or married 50 years, if you have no kids, young kids, grown kids or teenagers, adding some enthusiasm and whimsy to your marriage benefits everyone!

Don’t just read about it, actually do it!

Some of the ideas will be for husbands and some will be for wives. You can easily adapt all of the ideas for the other. Weekly, we will make it clear who the post is for. If you want to be surprised, you can stop reading and forward the post to your spouse. Or you can just decide to treat your spouse for 6 weeks straight.

Have fun, connect, find refreshment and revel in each other.  It is going to be a great year!

The Wives Plan Date  Number 1  

Theater Fantasy

Ask your husband if you can have an at home movie date for just the two of you. Suggest that he pick a movie and you plan the time. Pretend like you are actually at the theater by turning out the lights and fixing some popcorn. During the movie, surprise your husband. Gradually start stroking his thigh, moving further and further in. As slyly as you can, satisfy him with manual or oral stimulation. (Secretly be prepared with a towel and lube)