Ruth Buezis

TRAINING YOUR BODY TO ENJOY ANOTHER POSITION

by Ruth Buezis
October 7, 2015September 13, 2021

Last week I wrote about Rear Entry positions and I want to do a follow up. I learned something along the way that I think deserves its own article. We can train our body to enjoy another position.

A Process

Learning to enjoy rear entry positions has been a process for me. Part of it has been learning to trust my husband and know that he is not just using me. We have also learned to make the position more pleasurable for me with added stimulation or movement and angle changes. I have also learned to embrace my own eroticism and what a position like doggie position can communicate. But fairly recently I stumbled on something that changed things a lot more than I thought it would.

REAR ENTRY

by Ruth Buezis
October 5, 2015August 1, 2018
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Recently I received a special request to write an article on vaginal intercourse rear entry positions so I am going to give it a whirl.

Rear entry used to be my least favorite position, but a lot of things have changed. So let me shed some light on some of the challenges of this position for women, adaptions that can make it more enjoyable, and why eventually it might be awesome.

Challenges

Anybody that has ever seen animals mate has the position of rear entry burned into their mind. This is the position that animals use when the male decides to do his thing. There is no foreplay, no kissing, no connection. He just does it. It is hard not to associate rear entry with being used and animalistic behavior.

Some wives may assume that if a husband wants to try rear entry, it is because he does not want to see her. That he is simply using her body as a receptacle. Just because you are not face to face does not mean that you cannot create a powerful connection.

LIVE THE SONG – YOUR EYES OVERWHELM ME

by Ruth Buezis
October 1, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 6:4-5

⁴You are as beautiful as Tirzah, my darling,
as lovely as Jerusalem,
as majestic as troops with banners.
⁵Turn your eyes from me;
they overwhelm me.

Turn your eyes from me; they overwhelm me.

Do we realize how powerful the eyes are?

The Pleasures of Morning Sex

by Ruth Buezis
September 23, 2015August 8, 2018
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As my husband and I have gotten older, we have learned to appreciate mornings sex for several reasons. After a good night’s sleep, some of the aches and pains have receded and our bodies feel rested. My brain slows down enough to put my “to do list” on the back burner for a while. Hormones surge and bodies function best in the morning. And as I have gained confidence, I appreciate seeing each other in the light of day and savoring those images. Consider taking advantage of morning sex and see what a difference it can make.

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THE MAGIC THUMB

by Ruth Buezis
September 21, 2015August 8, 2018
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Sometimes a woman needs just a little something extra but doesn’t exactly know what. Intercourse feels sooo good, but we are just not quite there. A thumb might be just the trick.

When you have intercourse in the Woman on Top position, your husband can rest his thumb against your clitoris. Or he can hold it just below to provide the little bit of tension or awareness you need.

LIVE THE SONG – MY FRIEND

by Ruth Buezis
September 17, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 5: 15-16

Her

¹⁵His legs are pillars of marble
    set on bases of pure gold.
His appearance is like Lebanon,
    choice as its cedars.
¹⁶His mouth is sweetness itself;
    he is altogether lovely.
This is my beloved, this is my friend,
    daughters of Jerusalem

This is my beloved, this is my friend.

Do you treat your husband like you do your friends?

LIVE THE SONG – POLISHED IVORY

by Ruth Buezis
September 10, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 5:10-14

She

¹⁰My beloved is radiant and ruddy,
    outstanding among ten thousand.
¹¹His head is purest gold;
    his hair is wavy
    and black as a raven.
¹²His eyes are like doves
    by the water streams,
washed in milk,
    mounted like jewels.
¹³His cheeks are like beds of spice
    yielding perfume.
His lips are like lilies
    dripping with myrrh.
¹⁴His arms are rods of gold
    set with topaz.
His body is like polished ivory
    decorated with lapis lazuli.

How many of us really look at our husbands bodies?

BACK FROM VACATION

by Ruth Buezis
September 8, 2015August 8, 2018

After 2 weeks of traveling around Copenhagen, Norway and Iceland with my husband and parents, I am getting back in the saddle and writing. So let’s just put a few thoughts out there….

I love vacation! Seeing the world with my husband and holding hands as we walk the cobblestone streets. I love taking a day off and ordering room service and not exiting our room until noon. I love dressing up for my husband and watching his jaw drop. It is so fun to have sex in different beds, in different rooms with different views. I love waking in the middle of the night because we have not adjusted to the time zone, rolling right into great sex and then back to sleep. Vacations are great!!

LIVE THE SONG – BRAGGING RIGHTS

by Ruth Buezis
August 20, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 5:9 Friends 9 How is your beloved better than others, most beautiful of women? How is your beloved better than others, that you… Read More »LIVE THE SONG – BRAGGING RIGHTS

LIVE THE SONG – FAINT WITH LOVE

by Ruth Buezis
August 13, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 5:4-7

She

⁴My beloved thrust his hand through the latch-opening;
    my heart began to pound for him.
⁵I arose to open for my beloved,
    and my hands dripped with myrrh,
my fingers with flowing myrrh,
    on the handles of the bolt.
⁶I opened for my beloved,
    but my beloved had left; he was gone.
    My heart sank at his departure.^[k]
I looked for him but did not find him.
    I called him but he did not answer.
⁷The watchmen found me
    as they made their rounds in the city.
They beat me, they bruised me;
    they took away my cloak,

those watchmen of the walls!
⁸Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you—
if you find my beloved,
what will you tell him?
Tell him I am faint with love.

This is a dream about lost opportunities – about regret.

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