As I sat down to write an article on how to have an orgasm, a good friend texted wondering what I was up to.
“Not much”, I said, “Just writing a post on how to have an orgasm.”
“Step by step instructions?”, she texted back.
“Not exactly step by step. It doesn’t really work that way. Does it?”
“What are the steps?”, I asked.
“1. This is your crotch. 2. Locate your clitoris. 3. Rub”
Wise counsel from a wise friend, but seriously, sometimes figuring out how to have an orgasm just isn’t that simple.
If you have never had an orgasm, don’t give up. Just because you haven’t had one yet, doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t. Many of us took months or even years to learn how to orgasm the first time so you are not alone. Learning how your body works takes time and energy but it is well worth the investment.