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Christmas is coming. Don’t forget to think about giving some gifts to make your bedroom special. Below are a list of ideas.

My favorite item that my husband bought for me this year is a remote control that will operate 3 different items, plugged into 3 different outlets in our room. While laying in our bed, we can turn on or off the scentsy candle across the room, the small night light next to my bed, and the reading light on his side of the bed. Here is a link 

Cold winters in Minnesota make for cold sheets and cold bedrooms. We already have a small electric fireplace like this one, but we plan on trying an electric blanket to pre-heat the sheets.

If you are interested  in purchasing some toys, or love potions, Covenantspice.com is a safe site to visit.

I am a big fan of coconut oil, partly because as I age, I need lubrication, and partly because the more my husband uses it on my, the softer his hands become. In the winter, coconut oil gets so hard in the jar that it is hard to get out. This year for Christmas, I am going to use candy molds to form small shapes of coconut oil that we can just grab when we want it.

I think my husband is terrified that one night we will burn the house down because we forgot to blow out the candles. He was thrilled when I came home with these remote controlled electric candles. They are wax on the outside and look, smell and feel real.

For sure, a new outfit for both of us in bed.

Put some thought into how you can make your bedroom special this holiday season.

What plans do you have for this year?

A couple of weeks ago,  I taught a class called “Your friend’s marriage matters”. We spent time talking about how to encourage our friends in their marriage, whether they were struggling or doing great.

Unbeknownst to me, a woman attended the class whose husband is not yet willing to come to church with her. She came because she wanted to strengthen her own marriage. When her husband asked where she had been, she shared that she had been at a class about marriage, and that she learned 2 small simple things that she hoped they might begin doing.

1. She wanted to start holding hands again

2. She wanted to start praying with him

He thought for a moment, and then said,”I guess we can start doing that”.

What an amazing thing! Quite honestly, I’m not sure he realized how physical touching and praying together can transform a relationship.

Your mission, is to make these two simple changes to your marriage, and to do them everyday….

Hold hands… while you are walking, watching tv, shopping, or sitting next to each other

Pray together … in the morning, or evening pray to the God of the universe. Don’t just pray through your prayer requests, but share your heart, your struggles, your hopes and your dreams.

Are you thankful for your husband?

We wives can be so complicated in bed and in many ways a real challenge to love. What works one day may not work the next, and yet our husbands biggest thrill is to give us the time of our life.

Affirm your husband by making a list of 10 ways that he loves you well in your marriage bed.

It has been an interesting week, with all kinds of up and downs, twists and turns. What I want to share with you comes from today’s Jesus Calling and Colossians 1:27  – And this is the secret: Christ lives in you. This gives you assurance of sharing his glory.

I don’t where you are today, or what you are dealing with, but Christ lives in you. 

I don’t who God has called you to serve or minister to, but Christ lives in you. 

I don’t what God has called you to do, but Christ lives in you.

In all that you do, know that Christ lives in you, so that you might glorify Him.

The time change always throws me for a loop, and this week I just keep waking up early. Time for some great morning sex.

Take advantage of those opportunities when you are in bed, and for what ever reason not sleeping. This week enjoy some middle of the night sex, or early morning sex.