WEEKLY MISSION #12
Christmas is coming. Don’t forget to think about giving some gifts to make your bedroom special. Below are a list of ideas. My favorite item… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #12
christian sex class
WEEKLY MISSION #11
A couple of weeks ago, I taught a class called “Your friend’s marriage matters”. We spent time talking about how to encourage our friends in… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #11
WEEKLY MISSION #10
Are you thankful for your husband? We wives can be so complicated in bed and in many ways a real challenge to love. What works one… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #10
How to love your wife with oral sex
Many of these concepts are based on Ian Kerner’s She Comes First: The thinking man’s guide to pleasuring a woman
After teaching over 500 women about sex, it is clear that most wives have the same insecurity, “Does he really want to be down there.” Husbands, you need to know that wives have a terrible time believing that you like the taste, your neck isn’t in knots, and that you aren’t just doing it because we want you to.
Your wife needs to know that you enjoy giving her oral sex, and the only way she will know, is if you tell her. You will need to tell her time and time again, because the same insecurity will show its head over, and over, and over…
If you have ever viewed oral sex in pornography, then erase every image and memory, because what real women enjoy is nothing like what you have seen.
Now, if you haven’t read my article on “Rubbing vs. Feeling – Manual stimulation” a couple of weeks ago, then go back and read it before you go any further, because the same concepts apply to oral sex.
God wants husbands and wives to “know” each other through sex. Your intuitive wife will know whether you are just wildly flicking your tongue around trying to get something to work, or if you are actually present, feeling her through your tongue, sensing the changes to her body, and taking her somewhere.
WEEKLY MISSION #10
It has been an interesting week, with all kinds of up and downs, twists and turns. What I want to share with you comes from… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #10
WEEKLY MISSION #9
The time change always throws me for a loop, and this week I just keep waking up early. Time for some great morning sex. Take… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #9
What is SEX?
Recently I read a book that talked about women who allowed themselves to enjoy “everything but ___ ” before marriage. They spent hours with their boyfriends, kissing and exploring each other’s bodies, and they could hardly hold the line because they loved it so much.
Then they got married….and all that kissing and touching went by the wayside. They and their husband could now partake in the main event, intercourse. Even if there was still some kissing and touching, it was just a prelude to intercourse. It wasn’t very long before the wife felt like it wasn’t that great anymore, and she could take it or leave it.
So what changed? It wasn’t just the fact that they were married, it was what they focused on and spent their time on. Every time she would get going and start to enjoy things, they transitioned to intercourse, because now they could have “sex”.
WEEKLY MISSION #3
I have this theory that in order to enjoy sex more, we need to feel like there is actually some one leading. It is distracting… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #3
What is holding YOU back?
So, why don’t you think you deserve it?
Maybe you are just apathetic and don’t think that it is that important to you. I constantly hear from wives that they want their husbands to open up, and share their feelings and deepest longings. Sex is one of the mysterious ways that God gets men to open up. Sex is also one of the mysterious ways that God teaches wives to live in the moment, to stop worrying, to let go of control, to feel, to live. Wake up! Sex is important!
WEEKLY MISSION #2
“You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes.” Song of Songs 4:9 The… Read More »WEEKLY MISSION #2
