Ruth Buezis

Testicles – What in the World do I do with These?

by Ruth Buezis
November 16, 2015August 1, 2018
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I have to admit, out of all the areas of my husband’s body, the testicles are probably one of the most confusing and mysterious to me. I was really never quite sure what I was supposed to do with them. But lately I feel like I am getting a little more of a handle on it. So, I thought I would share what I have discovered.

First, in order to have full access and enjoy the experience, your husband should be freshly bathed. It would also be really helpful if he does a little grooming in that area. He could simply use a hair clipper to trim – think ¼ to ½ inches long – or he could carefully trim the hair with scissors.

Song of Songs 7:13 – And the finest fruits are at our door, new delights as well as old.

LIVE THE SONG – TO THE COUNTRYSIDE

by Ruth Buezis
November 12, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 7:11-12

She

¹¹Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside,
    let us spend the night in the villages.^[^p^]
¹²Let us go early to the vineyards
    to see if the vines have budded,
if their blossoms have opened,
    and if the pomegranates are in bloom—
    there I will give you my love.

Let us go to the countryside

I love having sex in other locations, but it hasn’t always been that way.

Our family lives in California so we often travel for a week to visit. I used to fret and worry. Would someone hear us? Would they guess if we came down stairs late or slipped away in the middle of the day? Would we mess up the sheets? Sex rarely happened.

HIS AMAZING BODY – The Penis

by Ruth Buezis
November 9, 2015August 1, 2018
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The more I get to know my husband’s body , the more I find it absolutely AMAZING! For the next 3 weeks we are going to spend time getting to know our husband’s body and we are going to start with his penis.

Song of Songs 5:14 His body is like polished ivory
decorated with sapphires.

The penis is probably the most prominent part of our husband’s body and it is most closely associated with what it means to be a man. When it is cooperating it is their pride and joy, but when it is not, it can create anxiety that snow balls into greater anxiety. Men worry over not lasting long enough, or getting or maintaining an erection. Their erect penis is their greatest joy or their greatest defeat.

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LIVE THE SONG – I BELONG

by Ruth Buezis
November 5, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 7:9-10

She

May the wine go straight to my beloved,
flowing gently over lips and teeth.^[o]
¹⁰I belong to my beloved,
and his desire is for me.

My husband and I have been having the exact same argument for about 5 years. Well actually, it’s not even an argument. It is me getting upset at him because I start keeping score.

LIVE THE SONG – BREATH LIKE APPLES

by Ruth Buezis
October 29, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 7:6-9

⁶How beautiful you are and how pleasing,
    my love, with your delights!
⁷Your stature is like that of the palm,
    and your breasts like clusters of fruit.
⁸I said, “I will climb the palm tree;
    I will take hold of its fruit.”
May your breasts be like clusters of grapes on the vine,
    the fragrance of your breath like apples,
⁹    and your mouth like the best wine.

Does your breath smell like apples? Fresh, crisp, sparkling?

Wanted: A Man’s Perspective

by Ruth Buezis
October 26, 2015September 22, 2016
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The church is filled with studies to help men navigate a world that is saturated with sex and keep their eyes pure. Are there any studies to help husbands be intimate with their wife? Media and pornography are streaming images that portray techniques that work for men only. Sex is portrayed as a physical need and real intimacy, as God intended it to be, is absent. There are few messages about God’s design for sex. I believe the church needs to get involved in helping men know how to connect and love their wives in very tangible ways.

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LIVE THE SONG – THE DANCE

by Ruth Buezis
October 22, 2015September 22, 2016
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Song of Songs 6:13 – 7:5

Why would you gaze on the Shulammite
as on the dance of Mahanaim?

7 ^[ⁿ^]How beautiful your sandaled feet,
    O prince’s daughter!
Your graceful legs are like jewels,
    the work of an artist’s hands.
²Your navel is a rounded goblet
    that never lacks blended wine.
Your waist is a mound of wheat
    encircled by lilies.
³Your breasts are like two fawns,
    like twin fawns of a gazelle.
⁴Your neck is like an ivory tower.
Your eyes are the pools of Heshbon
    by the gate of Bath Rabbim.
Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon
    looking toward Damascus.
⁵Your head crowns you like Mount Carmel.
    Your hair is like royal tapestry the king is held captive by its tresses.

Many people believe that She is doing a dance for him – right down to the nude.

– A Striptease –

Welcome to Awaken-Love.net

by Ruth Buezis
October 19, 2015September 22, 2016
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I have to admit, I felt kind of lost when I clicked on christiansexclass.org and it was no longer accessible. I have been sharing there for almost two years and in a way, I left a part of myself there. Much of my writing has chronicled my personal journey, struggles and revelation about sex. I have digested what I have read, what is in alignment with God’s truth and what I have seen demonstrated to be true. I have also practiced putting words to concepts and ideas so that I can communicate them in Awaken-Love classes. Putting words to this powerful, yet sometimes indescribable, thing we call sex is not easy.

I have also made amazing connections on christiansexclass.org. Melanie found me and gathered up the courage to ask about taking a class – resulting in a ministry partnership that is absolutely God ordained. Women from California, Florida, Alabama, Arkansas, Texas, North Dakota, and even Nigeria are joining in on classes as we are still figuring out the best technology for communication. One young woman that was not even married yet, but already feels a call to minister in the area of Christian sexuality, emailed asking for a mentor. God has opened door after door…

DO’S AND DON’TS – To Help Your Wife Have a Sexual Awakening

by Ruth Buezis
October 12, 2015August 1, 2018
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More than once a husband has emailed asking the question,

“How do I help my wife to have a sexual awakening?”

We probably ought to start by talking about how I would define a sexual awakening.

SEXUAL AWAKENING – waking up to God’s truth and design for sex within marriage that leads to a freedom and desire to live in that fullness.

As with anything, you cannot change your spouse, but you can strive to be a positive influence in their life. The best thing you can do is love your wife as Christ loved the church – that mean selflessly, unconditionally, sacrificially. It is not a small challenge, but it is what God called you to do. If you are man enough to take that on – than continue reading because here are some ways to help your wife combat the stereotypes and messages that she may believe about men or sex.

LIVE THE SONG – UNIQUE

by Ruth Buezis
October 9, 2015September 22, 2016

Song of Songs 6:5-9 He Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from Gilead. 6 Your teeth are like a flock of sheep coming… Read More »LIVE THE SONG – UNIQUE

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