After years of waiting, on December 5-7, Jim and I will record videos classes for Men’s Edition. We are excited, nervous and full of anticipation as we create much needed resources for Christian husbands to create an amazing sex life in their marriage. Filled with God’s truth, detailed respectful information and practical application we hope to have the videos released by March 1st. Already revamped, the Awaken Love website has information about classes For Wives, Engaged Couples and Men’s Edition.
I have had a passion for helping husbands for years. Though many resources exist to help husband’s in the battle for purity, few exist to help husbands create an intimate sex life with their wife. While it might seem strange for a woman to teach men, I bring a unique perspective. After having taught hundreds of women, I am uniquely qualified to help husbands understand their wives.
Through the class Jim and I will:
- Help husbands understand the difference between just having sex and intimately connecting during sex.
- Help husbands become a great lover to their wife, by understanding the battles in her head, how her body works and how to woo her with words and actions.
- Teach men that learning to intimately connect with their wife will help them understand what an intimate relationship with Christ looks like.
- Equip men to talk to their wife, their kids and other men about sex, so that they might know God’s truth.
Lack of Information
With few messages besides “Don’t do it” from families or church, men get married and assume things will magically fall into place. But many times they don’t. Without the ability to communicate about sex, men feel stuck and alone. For some men, pornography adds to the struggle by creating unrealistic expectations and performance pressure. Even when couples figure out how to make sex enjoyable for both, a wives constantly changing body and complicated mind can leave a husband feeling confused and timid.
How it Works
The 6 week class is designed for a group of men to take parallel to their wives Awaken-Love class. It can also be taken as a follow up or on their own. Regardless of whether a wife takes Awaken Love, Men’s Edition will help husbands understand God’s design and equip them to understand their wife.
Some of the topics covered in class are…
- How to create intimacy through sex
- God’s design for sex and how it plays out in marriage
- Understanding and helping your wife battle the lies she believes about sex
- Recognizing the lies men believe about sex
- Discerning what to enjoy in your marriage bed.
- How her body works
- Men’s bodies
- Navigating frequency
- Wooing your wife
I am praying that the Men’s Edition of Awaken Love will be an amazing resource for husbands to find detailed, respectful information that is packed with practical advice. Will you please pray for Jim and me? Please pray for:
- God’s Inspiration to bring the class to life from men
- Unity as we work together
- Freedom from nerves to energize His truth
- That we let go of our own agenda and have flexibility to let God work