Awaken Love Classes for Wives starting soon!

Longing for a more intimate sex life with your husband? Looking for truth and healing in the area of Sexuality? Want to get more comfortable talking about sex with your kids? Wondering how to open up the conversation of sex in your church? Join me for a 6 week Awaken Love class for Wives For […]

Awaken Love Podcast and Other Exciting News

Listen to the Awaken Love podcast  where Christian wives are reclaiming sex. Hear stories of the growth and healing that women have experienced in the area of sexuality and listen to Ruth’s teaching. You can find Awaken Love on Apple, Stitcher, Spotify, my website or any of your favorite listening platforms. Share the Awaken Love podcast with […]

Quarterly Gathering

For Wives If you have ever wondered… what it’s like to lead an Awaken Love Class how do you lead a class or who in their right mind invites women to a sex class… Then join me Tues Sept 27th at 7:00 pm central for the Awaken Love Quarterly Gathering. I am inviting teachers, facilitators […]

Miracles Happen

In class last year, I witnessed what I would call a miracle. I’ve watched profound transformation during Awaken Love classes before, so I don’t know that I felt surprised. But when Lisa shared her God story, it felt awe inspiring, bigger than life, a miracle that only God can orchestrate. You see in the world […]

The Mission of Awaken Love – After 10 Years

The mission of Awaken Love is to encourage men and women to claim God’s design for sex and equip them to share the truth with others. It is not your typical mission, even in the area of married sexuality. I don’t just feel called to improve marriages. I want to equip Christians to talk about […]

The Meanings That We Put to Sex

Humans are meaning makers. Unlike animals that simply go through life eating, reproducing and doing what they must to survive, people constantly interpret life. We map our world to measure our worth and the validity of our actions. Am I enough? Does he want me? Did I fail again? Will this get me what I […]

Choice- Reclaiming the Power in Your Life

Choice. A powerful word, an empowering concept. It has helped me reframe everything that I do and helped me to better own my life. Rather than feeling like a victim of my circumstance or the people around me, I choose what I do, how I react and what I believe. I am no longer dependent […]

Quiet Your Inner Critic and Feel Satisfied

I have high standards.  I focus, work hard, and I make things happen. But even when things go well, I never feel satisfied. I mean, I’ve spent 10 years teaching Awaken Love to over 1000 women and still felt like a failure. That doesn’t really make sense, but it’s true. I recently discovered through counseling […]

Facing Core Beliefs Moved Me Forward

It is kind of funny to admit, but when I started counseling, I thought to myself, “I am going to dive in for 6, maybe 8 weeks, and then I will be good to go.” Not only would I be a better me, but I would show my husband just how mature I am. Internally […]

Sex is God’s Domain

Last week I taught my first in-person Awaken Love class in more than 2 years and all I can say is, “God is moving!” We met on my back porch, where I started teaching classes exactly 10 years ago. Twelve women from all walks of life – young and not so young, newly married, divorced […]